Why do people get children?

The need to get children

One thing that I, as a MGTOW, keep me busy is wondering about the world. When I see families, I rarely see the happy family that the media is presenting us in the commercials. The parents are always bitching towards their children. They get angry at them for the slightest thing they do wrong. They get angry if they play or stop and look in marvel at the world around them. The children have to produce and “develop” nonstop. The parents don’t seem happy at all, and children just follow them in their ignorance. I fail to accept that other wannabee parents don’t see this also; so why would a couple choose to whelp a few more cottars on this already over-consumed planet?

The MGTOW perspective

I don’t have the need to have children. It seems like absolute horror to me, so why do people get children? I asked them.

Most guys want children sooner or later. They seem to have the need to propagate their DNA, and is a kid not the biggest ego satisfaction? It’s a twinge of power. With children you can force something on the world that is yours. Also, you show to the world and your environment that you’ve succeeded as a human being. You propagated.

For chicks, there are other mechanisms at play. They have the biological drive hard-coded into them. By having children they can force their husband to work and to provide for her and her kids. This way she can have an easy life, doing the mind-numbing things she can do best.

One factor that is let out of this story are the kids themselves. It’s clear to me that the majority of parents don’t care about their children. They want the children to have a good education, and join the right clubs or the right culture so they can brag to their friends and environment about the “accomplishments” of the children. The happiness of the children is never a factor to consider! Why else send the kids to schools? Schools that have more in common with a prison than a center of study, mentorship and enlightenment?

Avoid the trap

As a MGTOW or ghost we cannot join this story. Most guys have somewhere a need to procreate so your DNA keeps existing. As a redpill person and above else, as a GOOD person, it’s a crime to place children on this planet if you cannot give it a future. Why give your child a life of misery, confinement and mindnumbing jobs in poverty? If you’re a miserable, poor person yourself you shouldn’t procreate. Period. Your own ego satisfaction is of no consequence at all if another innocent life is involved. As a ghost we not only avoided the trap of females, but we also have to avoid loading our own shit onto other people.

Nightclubs are brothels for females

The clubbing lifestyle

Every night there are people going to nightclubs in any big city. In the weekends, most young people go out to clubs and parties as religiously as their parents go to church. They pay club entrance tickets. They pay parking fees. They drive expensive cars, or rent expensive cars to go to the club. They wear expensive and often very uncomfortable stylish clothes. Why do they do it? What drives so many young people to go to such a place? Let’s have a close look at the motivators for the two sexes.

Why do guys go to nightclubs?

Guys go to nightclubs for one reason, and one reason only: it is the place where the chicks are. From when they were young, guys are programmed to believe nightclubs are THE way to get sex. If you turn on the television, and especially if you watch music channels, you see dancing girls in tight dresses; half naked dancing pretentiously around guys that display some status. In many movies you see the main characters get serial one-night-stands when they step a foot into clubs. Mostly, those movie characters step out of the club at the end of the night with a hot chick on their side. The character of the sleazy successful player is deeply programmed in our unconscious brain. Guys go to nightclubs because they believe it’s the easiest way to get pussy.

Why do females go to nightclubs?

If you watch females you see almost the opposite. Girls go to nightclubs to do their favorite thing, and that is to construct and play with relationships. For a girl, a nightclub represents the battlefield for her sexual market value. She can show off her goods and get attention from guys. The more attention she receives, the higher she can set her sexual price. In nightclubs she can observe who of the guys have the highest status and which groups of people display the hottest girls in their storefront. Judging the environment, she knows where she can place herself on the SMV-scale compared to the competition of the other girls.

This means that, for a chick, her sexual market value is positioned by the amount of guys she can reject and what quality of guy she can reject. In a nightclub a girl can wield the only power she has; and that is her sexual power.

The business model

So, what is happening in reality in nightclubs? I have gone out for years and years, because I too fell into the trap. In reality you see groups of people enter, dance a bit in a circle, look at each other. In meantime lots of guys get drunk to extrude the boredom and sometimes they go approach girls. Girls always belong to another group, so in reality the guy his advances get rejected almost always. The girls play a bit with their prey, mostly also out of boredom and because of the huge sexual power and ego trip she receives from all that male attention. Girls get bit tipsy too, so you see sometimes a girl make out with a guy. Making out for a girl means absolutely nothing. Guys get this way sometimes the attention they need from hot young girls, and oh behold; sometimes they get a makeout from a drunken chick.

It’s an almost perfect business model. This way the guys believe that, if they work more on their pickup-skills, they work on their looks and talking skills, and if he spends more money, in the end… he will get the girl. But this believe is flawed, to say the least.

If you look at the stats, the average amount of sexpartners in a lifetime for a guy, is somewhere around 7. This means that an average guy has to go out for years until they get pussy. This correlates with what I observe in the field. In reality you see the same group that enter the club, also leave the club intact. Sometimes you get a makeout, sometimes a girl will touch your dick, but a girl her sexual price setting is extremely high. Most girls will go for the guys of who she is sure of his social and financial status. And that is one of the guys that already have the social proof in her own group.

Avoid the booby trap

So, in the end, nightclubs are just places where girls go to get the things they crave: ego power trips, attention and a tool to place her sexual price so insanely high, so she can avoid the sex without problems. For this deeply programmed need, she needs guys off course. In a way, you can see nightclubs as female brothels. The guys are the prostitutes that give their female clients the power trip their female clients crave. The price that the guys pay is not only the financial price of transport, parking, entrance and drinks, or even the time lost. The highest price a guy pays is his dignity.

What can we do about this? Most older and experienced men become disgusted by nightclubs. We as the male collective have to face the fact that nightclubs are there to consume us. They rob us from our dignity, from our time, and from our financial resources. It’s the only place where there are a lot of females present; but we have to look at it as one big honey pot. The honey pot is there to lure us of all the things we possess.
I know it’s hard to stay at home. We WANT to believe bars and clubs provide a player lifestyle, but looking at the hard facts, almost all guys that try the clubbing lifestyle fail. We are made to believe that if we fail in nightclubs we fail in life. To comfort their ego, guys find solace in drugs, alcohol and the illusion that they are there “for the music”.

By going to nightclubs you keep the system intact. As a group, the male collective has to stop spending their resources there. You pay for an illusion, but it’s an expensive illusion. As a ghost or MGTOW, stay out of nightclubs as much as possible. That is, unless you want to prostitute yourself!

ISIS is not a muslim problem

Fighting for the Jihad

In Western Europe, a lot of young integrated Muslims go to Syria nowadays. They want to fight together with ISIS for the jihad and to establish a extreme secular Islamic state. I think they have the freedom to do whatever they want, as long as they do it there. But because there is so much overlap with the problems we face today in society I want to write something about this phenomenon here. Those young Muslims grow up in our Western European cities, they go to our schools and they look forward to a normal life, integrated in our society. This is the scary part. It seems young people are radicalizing under our very noses and rather chose to go to a faraway desert and possibly die than stay in W-Europe and build a future for themselves.

What is the real problem?

Anyone living in a big city can observe what the real problem is. We only have to open our eyes and be open to the redpill. Thousands of young Muslims hang around on the streets after school. Once they reach adulthood they can find easily a (low paying) job. But if you walk though those heavily packed neighborhood you notice immediately one thing: There are almost NO girls around!

Even if you look inside the houses you see they are packed with men only. It seems poverty and living in a ghetto is a male thing. This is probably because immigration itself is mostly male. When you see reportages on television about boats arriving in Italy, packed with immigrants, they are packed with male immigrants. The females stay at home.

The young Muslim males that are hanging around on the streets occupy themselves with dealing drugs, doing mock fights and approaching every female that dares to pass their path. What I observe in the ghettos is that there are only few females around. Those females are always the alternative type that likes to get fucked by the alpha black men, as a statement against society. The money these low value immigrant guys earn, is spend immediately to get low-quality sex in the red-light districts. But business is going bad. Only the top of the gang hierarchy gets the sex. The guys at the bottom can only watch in regret and anger how their superiors are able to get the pussy.

So, why do they go to Syria? They have absolutely NO chance of getting girls in Western Europe, so they do what they are programmed to do: kill the competition and fuck their females. Sex is on the Maslow-pyramid near the bottom; it’s essential for a healthy human being. Life is meaningless without sex, so they rather go to a faraway country, where they can get sex. Forced or not. Yes… the stories that reach us about mass-rape are the real reason for the exodus to Syria and Iraq of “Muslim-fighters”. Rape is the cause of this war.

Win the war without one bullet fired

So, the real reason of the existence of ISIS is the same reason why MGTOW and the manosphere exist. ISIS is a manifestation of the femapocalypse. Our own females are the reason for the radicalization. If they would be willing to get together with the present males (immigrants and locals), we wouldn’t have all that misery in the east. We wouldn’t have something like MGTOW, and our own local high educated males wouldn’t be retreating out of society. We can argue that the real reason of ISIS is the dominant male immigration. If we could attract more immigrant-females there wouldn’t be a problem, since the families would integrate. That is, because the hierarchy of needs is met. This way we can also keep our own demographics healthy. If we look only at the local population: with the femapocalypse we also have the demographic winter. But that is another story.

Is the red pill a scam?

Is there something wrong with the red pill?

We redpillers use the metaphor of the redpill that was presented in the movie “The Matrix”. The red pill stands for the ability to face reality and is a symbol for forbidden knowledge. The blue pill stands for ignorance. In the manosphere and in the popular culture the concept of the redpill became a hit. We finally have a good instrument or tool to divide people in two groups. Redpillers, who are aware, and bluepillers who are stupid.

Or are they…?

My main critique of the metaphors is that it’s a metaphor that comes from television. It comes from a movie that generated millions of profit. As a group of “aware people” we want to resist the propaganda on television, in music, in books and magazines. But we can argue that the matrix IS a movie on the television, so it IS part of the system. Why would the system give us on a silver plate the
If we accept that everything we see on television is propaganda to steer us as clueless sheep in a certain direction, we also have to face that the redpill metaphor from The Matrix is an idea that the system wanted to plant in our minds.

The system still controls us

Let’s play the advocate of the devil here. If the system wants us to believe we are controlled by our own belief system, what does the system aims with that? I think the main reason the movie “The matrix” came out is to trigger on a conscious level a new paradigm for society. They want people to be aware that they are “ruled”. They want a person to be aware that they have a master; somebody or something who is above them. Maybe if we look at the bigger picture we discover that we’re with 7 billion people on the planet. That is far more than the environment can handle. Maybe the collective want people to step outside the system.

People who don’t play the game are as influential as people who do play the game. If you step outside the system you lose anyway. You are the metric for people who are still in the game. You are the object they want to avoid so they don’t become like you. You are still useful to the system as a metric of “loser”.
Is choosing to not play the game the road to misery? If the collective has taken into account your knowledge of the redpill, the collective can anticipate your actions. They still steer you into a position of control. You think you’re free because you have “taken the red pill”, but you’re still a sitting duck, visible in the visor of the system.

Invisibility

The answer for this is to appear you play the game, but use your knowledge to hack the system so the system is not aware you’re “IN”. Once you’re on their cameras or monitors you’re lost.